They say it’s your birthday / It’s my birthday too, yeah

30 years.  3 decades. 1,565.32 weeks.  Even more days, hours, minutes, and seconds.   30 years of heart beats and breaths.  30 years where smiles have outnumbered frowns.  Laughter has been abundant.  Tears have been rare.  Cities have been explored and oceans have been swam.  Miles have been walked, ran, and flown.   Friendships forged and loves lost.  There have been high hopes and big dreams alongside stinging disappointments and slight blunders.


While the past 30 years (especially the previous 5+) have seemingly flown by with little resistance (and I am sure the next 30 will do the same)…I am honestly and wholeheartedly  looking forward to this upcoming decade.  I would be lying if there haven’t been moments in the past year where I have slightly freaked out about turning 30…they weren’t moments of comparison between my position in life and that of others.  We all lead different lives at varying paces.  However, do you ever feel like you are just tumbling along like a rogue sock in this big dryer called life?  Yeah…moments of feeling lost in the shuffle have made me apprehensive about turning 30.   I guess I always assumed 30 year olds didn’t tumble.  30 year olds knew what they wanted.  They walked confidently.  How naive my younger self was.  While I  don’t feel like I am tumbling about, but have gracefully graduated to gentle stumbling…I think learning how to confidently walk is what awaits me/us in our 30’s.  And you are silly if you can’t find the joy in that.


Birthdays have a tendency to be celebrated with layered cakes and multiple scoops of chocolate ice cream and rivers of hot fudge and mountains of whipped cream and showers of sprinkles.  However, after I recently had a rather heated (ha!) text message conversation with a friend over the best cake flavor (chocolate versus spice), we both realized that cake was our 4th favorite dessert.  Who argues over their 4th favorite dessert?  Pies, cookies, and brownies are favored over cake…all day, every day.  So, on this 30th birthday of mine…there will be no cake, but  a dessert I have made no less than 5 times in the past 3 weeks.  A favorite of mine?  Perhaps.


The simplicity that is a crisp is why I favor this dessert in the spring/summer.  A few cups of fruit that is hanging about the house, tossed with some sugar, a thickener, and perhaps a squeeze of a lemon or lime…topped with a quick crumble and in no time you have a dessert that will please everyone and anyone.  Young and old.  Friends, coworkers, and family. 

Plus, when you have a friend who supplies you with bundles of rhubarb because it grows in abundance behind her house ( I give thanks to whoever owned the house prior to her … we would have been fast friends as well) and when the strawberries are sweet and delicious … my mind can think of nothing else besides strawberry and rhubarb.  Rhubarb and strawberry.  It is the only thing I have been pumping out of my kitchen.

So, while I enjoy a bowl of warm strawberry rhubarb crisp and say adieu to my roaring twenties…I am giddy and anxiously awaiting what my 30’s will  have in store for little old(er) me.  Cheers!

Strawberry Rhubarb Crisp/Crumble
Author: Mal
  • Crumb Topping
  • 1 Stick Unsalted Butter, melted
  • 1 Cup All-Purpose Flour
  • 1 Cup Old Fashioned Oats
  • 1/4 Cup Granulated Sugar
  • 1/4 Cup Brown Sugar, tightly packed
  • pinch of salt
  • Filling
  • 2 lbs Strawberries, hulled and sliced in half
  • 2 Cups Rhubarb, 1/2 inch dice.
  • 3/4 Cup Granulated Sugar (less if you like it tart)
  • 3-4 Tablespoons Corn Starch
  • Juice of 1 lemon or lime (if you don’t have citrus, just omit – it’ll still be awesome, trust me)
  1. Preheat oven to 350F.
  2. Prepare topping first: In a medium bowl, combine all crumb topping ingredients and mix until well combined. Place in refrigerator for about 15 minutes. Prepare filling.
  3. In a large mixing bowl, toss together strawberries, rhubarb, sugar, corn starch, and lemon/lime juice. Carefully toss to combine.
  4. Pour filling into 9 inch deep dish pie plate (or an oven safe dish that will hold this amount of filling – casserole dishes work well).
  5. Carefully spread chilled crumb topping over fillling.
  6. Placed in preheated oven (place a baking sheet/tinfoil below baking dish to catch any drippings) and bake for about 45-50 minutes until the top becomes golden brown and the juice around the edges are bubbly.
  7. Remove from oven and let cool before serving.
  8. Store at room temperature loosely covered.


Published by Mallory

A twenty - something (at least for a little while longer) trying to squeeze the most out of life...but mainly baking/cooking up a storm in my kitchen while watching Netflix.

9 thoughts on “They say it’s your birthday / It’s my birthday too, yeah

  1. AH HAPPY 30th, Mal!!! I hope it’s a fabulous day, and that you eat too much, and that people celebrate your existence non-stop. xoxox.


  2. Happy belated birthday! I enjoyed reading your reflections on the past few years…and your hopes for the years to come. This rhubarb crisp looks lovely. Strawberries and rhubarb equal summer perfection in my book!


  3. Happy belated birthday! It’s nice to read another’s thoughts on years past and years to come. This crisp looks absolutely delish – I love a good rhubarb and strawberry concoction in the summertime! 🙂


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